There is no doubt that summer is the most popular time to tie the knot. It is easier for everyone to take time off from work, there are lower chances of suffering from bad weather, and everything is just bright and beautiful. This only means that there won’t be as many things for you to worry about. We have put together a simple yet effective guide to help you make your dream wedding come true.
Now that your promise of love has been sealed by an engagement ring, what’s next? You may have thoughts in your mind on how to go about planning the wedding but do you really have an idea on where to start? Planning the big day will excite you and make you feel eager but it can also be inevitably overwhelming and daunting. There are tons of options for you to choose from when it comes to the basics of a wedding. Having lots of options poses the biggest challenge of all; where do you really start your wedding planning? Wedding planning may involve endless details, deadlines, and family drama. We want to help you plan your wedding in the most stress-free way as much as possible so we have created a guide that can help you go through the process.
- 1 Getting Started
- 2 Choose Your Venue
- 3 Wedding Decoration
- 4 Get People Involved
- 5 Choose your Bridesmaid
- 6 The Wedding Couple
- 7 Gifts for The Couple
- 8 Tame Your Guestlist
- 9 Gifts for Everyone in the Wedding
- 10 Wedding Accessories & Necessities
Start by letting the most important people in your life know about your decisions. You can let your parents, close friends, and close relatives know first before announcing it to the world. It is important to share your ideas about the wedding and decide together with your partner. Think about the style and theme of the wedding, whether you like a beach wedding, a rustic wedding, or a traditional church wedding. It would all depend on the wedding customs in your country. Do not include budgeting and money in your conversation yet; just plainly talk about your dreams and plans.
If you do not have an idea about when the best date is to do your wedding ceremony, you can at least get an idea of when is the best summer month for the wedding. This way, you will also have an idea on the duration of wedding planning which will ensure that everything is organized.
You also need to decide how big or small your wedding should be. The size of the party will also dictate the cost and time needed to plan the wedding. You can already create a list of the people you would like to invite. It is possible that you cut the number of the invited people but it is good to have a basis. Make your guest list so you have guidance.
Once you have an idea of the theme, size, and date, you can start talking about the budget. Check if your parents can contribute or if only the two of you will shoulder all the expenses. You can also write everything in a notebook or a wedding planner for an efficient budgeting strategy. Jot down all the items or services you both wish to have and as well as their cost. Having a good summary of the budget would allow you to cut down your costs on some aspects.
Choose Your Venue
Typically, you will need to look for two venues. First, the place where the ceremony will be held. Second, the place where the wedding reception will take place. This will still vary depending on the theme of your wedding. For example, you want to do a beach or garden wedding. Typically, the ceremony and the reception can both be set on the beach or the garden. Always keep the weather in mind when you are deciding if you want to be outdoors or not. This is important not only for you in your beautiful dress, but also for your guests and pictures! Always have a plan B in case it does rain like a nice tent set up outside if that is where you decide you will be holding the weather.
If you want to be hands-on for your wedding planning, you can get your own decorations or make your own DIY decoration. If you really want to achieve the theme you have always dreamed about, it is easy to find affordable wedding decorations like cake toppers. Here are some of our favorite:
Get People Involved
You will need the help of other people to ensure nothing goes wrong with your wedding. Everything has to be perfect. If you want perfection, you can hire photographers, videographers, musicians, designers, and caterers. When looking for photographers and videographers, it is best to hire them a few months in advance. They can also do your announcement/ save the date shoot and cover the whole wedding. Depending on what you want, they should be able to offer different packages at a certain cost. Before getting your photographers and videographers, it is important to check their portfolio. Ask for friend recommendations too. These days, most people own a good DSLR camera; maybe you can seek help from friends who can take good photos to cut cost. You can also make the wedding moment more special by hiring musicians. When you have the location booked, you can either be hands-on in designing the venue or hire a designer to do it. Surely some of your friends would offer help. You can decide on the table arrangements and decorations. Lastly, you can hire a caterer to make things a lot easier. Before getting the service from these people, do not be afraid to haggle or bargain to cut the cost of your wedding expenditures.
Choose your Bridesmaid
Before naming your bridesmaids, you should let your prospects know their roles and responsibilities. They should know that bridesmaids are in charge of planning the bridal shower. They also need to commit time and energy for your wedding. These roles should be clear before getting the bridesmaids. They have the option to decline when they know they can’t commit to the responsibilities. You can get as many bridesmaids as you want. There is no strict rule to follow. Do not just get bridesmaids from your family, relatives, and friends. You should also get bridesmaids from the family of your groom. This will strengthen family ties and relationships. When choosing your maid of honor, its always been a good move to get your best or closest friend.
The Wedding Couple
Choose the things you need to have for the wedding. Buy the wedding dress for the bride and the clothing for the groom. Whatever party apparel or wedding accessory you need, these items would definitely help you dress for the occasion. Of course, you should not forget the wedding ring. You can either get a matching wedding ring set or get a striking wedding band for the groom and a unique wedding ring for the bride.
Buy the Wedding Dress
When buying the wedding dress, forget about all what people think and go with what you want. When you find it and feel that it is the one, then don’t second-guess yourself. You can set appointments to different bridal salons or keep things simple by slipping into a store and getting out with your bridal dress. Here are some of our favorite wedding dresses.
Don’t Forget Your Bridal Bouquet
Good Stuff for the Groom
Gifts for The Couple
Although most couple would have a registry for you to get your gifts, it is never a bad idea to have something for them which is truly from your heart. Here are unique gift ideas to give the bride and groom.
Tame Your Guestlist
Finalize your guest list. You may need to pay the caterer per head so you should really know the number of guests by now. To help you decide, only invite the people whom you still interact with. Do not invite the whole office. Keep your list simple by inviting the closest friends, family members, and relatives. Also, tell your parents not to invite everyone in the neighborhood or the club where they are affiliated in. Once you have finalized your list, it is time to send out your invitations. Invitations should be sent out 6-8 weeks before the wedding. What should you include on your invitation? Well, you can keep it simple by including the host, the place and time of the ceremony, and of course, the marrying couple. You can also get invitation cards online. Lastly, please do not include the registry information on your invitation.
Gifts for Everyone in the Wedding
Celebrate these big moments, like weddings, with appropriate gifts. Whether you want to give the marrying couple a gift, appreciate the parents of your partner with a gift, or give party favors to your guests, these gifts should be perfect for your needs. You can give thoughtful keepsakes or treasured family heirlooms to make your gift extra special. You can also give dressing gowns for men and women.
Wedding Accessories & Necessities
You may need a few more party apparels and wedding accessories so we have compiled more for you!
Planning a wedding is not an easy breezy task that you can do in one sitting but with guidance and proper budgeting, you should be able to get the wedding of your dreams to come true. You can be the couple who envisioned a grand summer wedding in Long Island State or the simple couple who tied the knot in a summer camp, regardless of your taste and preference, we are here to help you succeed! Let us know in the comments how your wedding planning is going!
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